If you realize that the man you are dating is not ready to commit or has another girlfriend the following are signs that you are just a hookup and not his girlfriend.
Not ready to commit
Even if he told you that he wants a serious relationship, he is not ready to commit himself full. A hookup is having a partner you can sleep with anytime you want without implications and drama. For instance, he does not need to offer you explanations on where he spent last night. He just told you about being serious in a relationship to make you feel that there is a chance in this one.
Get all advantages
Your man has a girl to sleep with without drama. He has not time to hear his girlfriend cry about being left alone. He is only interested in having his sexual needs fulfilled without being involved. If you are not interested in an emotional connection, this is the best type of arrangement that suits you.
You gave yourself cheap
As you probably know, men like girls who are difficult to get. Rather than proving the same, you just gave in cheaply. Maybe he just told you some few words and you are in. By the fact that he saw it, he is not taking advantage of the same. He does not care whether you are emotionally involved, since he does not.
He dislikes you
It will be unfortunate that he dislikes you. Remember that he is just interested in having great sex with you. He does not care about your emotions. Although the person is handsome and you are beautiful, he has an ugly personality. Remember that for men, sex is just sex. For them, it is not about the talks afterwards, emotional connection, or cuddling. It is not a must that he knows you, dates you, or being in a relationship with you.
Probably, your man is heartbroken or just he loves his ex. He may also be in love with a girl he cannot get and he is just using sex to get over it. Unless he gets over the person, he will not see you as a potential girlfriend, but just as a hookup. Even if sex is great, it does not solve the emotional issues he has.…